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How To Keep Believing In Yourself After Your Divorce
Ego! Self-esteem, pride, character, or your psyche what do these all have in common? They can be severely bruised or damaged in a divorce involving a cheating spouse. Once those take the significant hit how do you keep believing in yourself? ...
YOU GOTTA LOOK OUT FOR #1!!
Have you ever heard the saying "You gotta look out for #1"? This week the focus is on what are you doing to make you happy? “Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.” Ralph Marston Last week...
PLEASE STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND ACCEPT YOUR DIVORCE
So please stop feeling sorry for yourself and accept your divorce may not be the warmest greeting but I mean... Either your wife cheated or your husband cheated... Unfortunately, which is why you're here! So now what? Your first step is to...
THE HURTFUL PART OF DIVORCE NO ONE TALKS ABOUT
Other than the divorce itself and what lead up to the divorce, one of the more hurtful consequences is the isolation from an extended family that you thought was there for you. No matter how good or strong the relationship that you made with your in-laws one...
KNOW YOUR WHY
Ever lack motivation? Or be motivated by something then life hit you and you learn what really motivates you? I did! Now I "know my why"! And this is all I need to Always Be Progressing. If you would have asked me in my 20s and early 30s what motivates me, I would...
5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Stay… If Your Spouse Cheated
If your spouse cheated, I'm sure it's caught you by surprise. I know it did to me when I found out my now ex-wife cheated. Funny thing is I talked myself out of leaving and decided to give things another try. The question is WHY? Remember that question because it's...
How We Added More Life To Our Black Tie-Dye Shirts
In an attempt to try a new project with my daughter last weekend we tie-dyed black shirts. This is the story of how we added more life to our black tie-dye shirts. It only took us watching a few videos on YouTube to decide we wanted to try to tie-dye black...
HOW I LOST 18 LBS IN LESS THAN 60 DAYS WHILE GAINING MUSCLE
Have you ever let yourself go after you suffered a huge loss or took that Big L in life? A divorce Lost your job Death (obviously not yours of course) **Add your reason here** But something shook you up so bad you just went on a freefall that you couldn't stop or...
Things Dads Should Do To Start Dating After Divorce The Right Way
In my last post 5 Keys To Dating After Divorce For Dads, I mentioned that I would follow up with a post on the Do’s for when you decide to start dating after divorce. I'm wondering do I write Dos or Do's. The spellcheck shows Dos which for someone that speaks Spanish...
5 Keys To Dating After Divorce For Dads
So you’ve gone through the 5 stages of grief after your divorce and now you think you are ready to date again. But before you do men/dads you have to do a self check up from your feet up and invest in yourself. Let me elaborate. 5 Keys To Dating After...