So you’ve gone through the 5 stages of grief after your divorce and now you think you are ready to date again.  

But before you do men/dads you have to do a self check up from your feet up and invest in yourself. 

Let me elaborate.

5 Keys To Dating After Divorce For Dads

Let’s get straight to it.  

1. Mind (Know where you are mentally) – Know where your mind is and that it can handle dating.  Like I mentioned before weak minds make fragile people.  Women can sense it.  

2. Hygiene – Sounds like a basic thing but you’ll be surprised.  Smell good, whiten your teeth (every girlfriend I had since I was 20 religiously whitened their teeth so you know it’s important), fresh breath, deal with dandruff, and manscape. Do you want a hairy woman?  

3. Appearance – Some aspects of hygiene could fit in with appearance but I want to separate the two. Fresh hair cut, beard trimmed neatly. You can have a James Hardin beard beard and still keep it well maintained.  Clean clothes, nice shoes (don’t have to be expensive shoes) no holes or worn out shoe soles.

4. Work out – You don’t have to be bodybuilder big but if you walk from your car to your door and you get winded or you get winded when you bend over to tie your shoes cause your belly is in the way you should invest in a gym membership asap. Neither of those two examples means you are obese but it means you are out of shape.  Bad shape will lead to poor health or poor performance. 

5. Self-Esteem – if you have invested in yourself and are consistently taken care of the previous 4 points then you will be on your way to feeling better about yourself for you.  Which will lead to you being more attractive to her and thats important when you plan to start dating after divorce. 

I made you something:

I’ve always been a positive person but something happened the day I found out my wife cheated on me.

I became bitter and negative.  A darkness surrounded me. Which is when I came up with the Overcomers Mindset!

 

 

What is the Overcomers Mindset?

Have you lost all sense of positivity because of an unwanted divorce, or because of a spouse’s infidelity?  

What if you could do something right now, that will help you feel better about yourself or your situation?

The FREE Overcomers Mindset Guide provides:

• A positive thinking action plan to follow to help you reframe your mind
• The Happier You Checklist with actionable things for you do to work on your positivity
• Positive Thinking Resources (books, websites, and videos) that I have used.

It’s absolutely free and you can sign up below. 

Final Thoughts

This is the first of 3 posts about dating after divorce for dads.  

Next I will do a post on the Do’s for dating and another dedicated to the Dont’s.  

If you want me to do a video for each let me know in the comments. 

Please leave your answers below or come kick it with me on telegram at t.me/divorceddadadvise

As always…

Be you.  Be great! A.B.P. = Always be progressing!! 

Brandon