Resenting the Cheater
How many times have you woken up from sleeping with your mind stuck on the thought of your spouse cheating and how it hurt you? Then you spend the whole day resenting the cheater 
Or how it ruined your life plans or crushed your trust? Etc…
Right after the thoughts, you get this uneasy feeling in you, say I can’t stand them, and start cursing the thought of them.
Again, then your whole day is messed up because you kept focusing on what they did, and how much you hate them or whatnot.
That’s resentment.
Resenting the Cheater
I wrote a blog about resentment a little over a year or so ago check it out 2 Questions to ask yourself when you are full of resentment
My outlook is to focus on the positive things that can be done to move on after you are involved in a marriage with a cheating spouse.
Mainly because there is enough negativity surrounding you that can lead to depression possibly worse like harming yourself.
There are no benefits in life to being a negative person.
Resentment is the feeling of anger because you have been forced to accept something that you do not like. Cambridge Dictionary
FINAL THOUGHTS
Two of the happiest days in my life were the day I got married and the day my daughter was born.
Do you know what that means fam?
It means my ex-wife had a major role in some of the happiest times in my life.
Does cheating change those days to automatically become the worst days of my life? NO!
Every time I see my daughter I think about how grateful I am for my daughter not dang her mom’s such a b****. Haha!
I know it can be hard but learn to be grateful for the past and the experience, and be forgiving so you can experience your future.
As always…
Be Great! Be You!
A.B.P. ALWAYS BE PROGRESSING!
BRANDON (B-STEEZY the Dad)
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I’m Brandon, the Founder and Divorced Dad behind this blog. This blog is about being a divorced single dad. I’m here to help bring tips and laughs about parenting and divorce.