Divorce & Infidelity
Divorce & Infidelity
How To Keep Believing In Yourself After Your Divorce
Ego! Self-esteem, pride, character, or your psyche what do these all have in common? They can be severely bruised or damaged in a divorce involving a cheating spouse. Once those take the significant hit how do you keep believing in yourself? ...
YOU GOTTA LOOK OUT FOR #1!!
Have you ever heard the saying "You gotta look out for #1"? This week the focus is on what are you doing to make you happy? “Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.” Ralph Marston Last week...
PLEASE STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND ACCEPT YOUR DIVORCE
So please stop feeling sorry for yourself and accept your divorce may not be the warmest greeting but I mean... Either your wife cheated or your husband cheated... Unfortunately, which is why you're here! So now what? Your first step is to...
THE HURTFUL PART OF DIVORCE NO ONE TALKS ABOUT
Other than the divorce itself and what lead up to the divorce, one of the more hurtful consequences is the isolation from an extended family that you thought was there for you. No matter how good or strong the relationship that you made with your in-laws one...
5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Stay… If Your Spouse Cheated
If your spouse cheated, I'm sure it's caught you by surprise. I know it did to me when I found out my now ex-wife cheated. Funny thing is I talked myself out of leaving and decided to give things another try. The question is WHY? Remember that question because it's...
Things Dads Should Do To Start Dating After Divorce The Right Way
In my last post 5 Keys To Dating After Divorce For Dads, I mentioned that I would follow up with a post on the Do’s for when you decide to start dating after divorce. I'm wondering do I write Dos or Do's. The spellcheck shows Dos which for someone that speaks Spanish...
So…Your Wife Cheated But Where Is Your Accountability? Harsh Truth!
I had an epiphany one day about my divorce. And "So Your Wife Cheated But Where Is Your Accountability? Harsh Truth!" is about my role in my ex-wife's decision to cheat that led to the divorce. However, it's not just about my role but the man's role in general when...
7 Self Reflective Questions I Asked When I Was Depressed After Divorce
Questions! So many questions I asked but these are 7 Self Reflective Questions I Asked When I Was Depressed After Divorce that helped me grow and not allow my depression to become a crutch. I remember when I hit rock bottom after my divorce. I blamed myself, shut...
MY HIATUS IS OVER AND THIS IS WHAT I LEARNED
When was the last time you decided to take a mental break and unplug from everything you could? I've been on a brief hiatus from writing. Now that my hiatus is over this is... What I learned during that time Why I needed the break How it relates to divorce and...