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Resenting the Cheater
How many times have you woken up from sleeping with your mind stuck on the thought of your spouse cheating and how it hurt you? Then you spend the whole day resenting the cheater Or how it ruined your life plans or crushed your trust? Etc... Right after...
You’re not a failure because your spouse cheated
It may be hard to believe that you aren't a failure when your spouse cheats but you're not! However, this thinking can lead you down the path of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more you think you failed, say you failed, believe you failed, will end with...
Focused On Me, No Time To Focus On Them
Did you know when you are focused on you, you don't have time to focus on them? How are you dealing with the reoccurring thoughts of being cheated on and being betrayed? It's a tough pill to swallow right? Well, it gets better but I'm going, to be...
How are you feeling after your divorce and why it’s important to know?
After a divorce, it's important to know how you feel and how it affects your health. To do this you need to know how you are feeling: Physically Mentally Emotionally Spiritually These four things, some consider the Four Bodies, however, they are better known as...
Divorce Sucks! Don’t Make It Suck For Your Kids Too!!
LIFE!!! It throws curve balls, obstacles, hurdles, and sometimes kitchen sinks. Of course, the kitchen sink was your spouse cheating and the curveball is your divorce or vice versa. How do you prevent life's obstacles, such as a spouse's affair, from...
Hoping They Fail Is Not Going To Help You! Here’s Why
You've had your heartbroken, you've been betrayed so it's natural to want revenge, vengeance, or to see your ex-spouse fail. So what are you saying B? What I'm saying is hoping your ex's new relationship fails is normal. However, living each day just...
SHATTERED TRUST: The Aftermath Of An Affair
To expand on the topic from last week I want to dig into the actual processing of life after a spouse cheated on you. And how dealing with it affects daily life. For some, the aftermath can be so severe, devastating, and debilitating that you struggle...
Disappearance of You After Divorce
I'm not a psychiatrist and never watched Dr. Phil but I lived what I'm about to tell you. There's a thing that happened to me that happened to be the result of dealing with the betrayal of a cheating spouse. My scientific term for it is The...
Best Games To Play With Your Kids For Less Than $20
Got a $20, kids, and nothing but time and opportunity? You're in luck cause I will cover the Best Games To Play With Your Kids For Less Than $20. No video games are on this list just board and card games. Are you ready? Best Games To Play With Your...
Things To Do When Your Kids Are With Your Ex and You Miss Them
When it's your ex's turn with your kid/kids do you have a hard time leaving them? It's crazy how the sudden quiet in the car or at the house causes you to miss the loud playing or screaming that works the nerves at times. What do you do when you start...